The Biggest Myths About Dog Training (And What Actually Works)
- Christine Booth
- Feb 12
- 4 min read
Dog training is full of misconceptions and outdated ideas that can make things harder for both you and your dog. From the dominance theory to the idea that positive reinforcement alone is enough, many common beliefs about training miss the bigger picture: building trust and developing your leadership are key to real, lasting results.
Let’s break down the biggest dog training myths and what actually works instead.
Myth #1: You Have to Be the "Alpha" or Your Dog Won’t Respect You
What people believe: Your dog is trying to dominate you, and you need to assert yourself as the "alpha" to maintain control. This idea comes from outdated interpretations of wolf pack behavior, where a "leader" asserts dominance over the others through force.
The truth: Your modern dog is not a wolf, and even among wolves, leadership is about cooperation, not control. Your dog doesn’t need an “alpha”—they need a loving leader they can trust. Leadership isn’t about intimidation; it’s about providing structure, guidance, and confidence so your dog knows what’s expected of them.
What actually works: Instead of trying to "dominate" your dog, focus on calm, consistent leadership. When your dog trusts you to make good decisions on their behalf, they naturally look to you for guidance.
Myth #2: Positive Reinforcement Alone is Enough
What people believe: As long as you reward good behavior, your dog will behave perfectly.
The truth: Positive reinforcement is a powerful tool, but it’s not the full picture. If all you do is reward behavior without setting clear boundaries, your dog may still struggle with problem behaviors and confusion. Dogs need structure and clear communication alongside positive reinforcement to truly understand what is expected of them.
What actually works:
Use positive reinforcement to encourage desired behaviors and states of being.
Set clear expectations and boundaries to create structure and safety.
Guide your dog with compassionate understanding, so they look to you for direction even when no treats are involved.
Training isn’t just about reinforcing behaviors—it’s about shaping a dog that is confident, responsive, and connected to their human.
Myth #3: Quick Fixes Will Solve Behavior Problems
What people believe: If your dog has a behavioral issue, you just need the right tool, trainer, or technique to fix it fast.
The truth: Dog "training" isn’t about quick fixes—it’s about building a long-term relationship. Any method promising instant results usually involves suppressing behaviors instead of addressing the root cause. This can lead to even worse problems down the road.
For example, tools like shock collars or prong collars may stop a behavior in the moment, but they don’t teach your dog what to do instead—they just create fear or discomfort. Over time, this can lead to anxiety, confusion, or even aggression.
What actually works:
Instead of looking for a quick fix, focus on understanding and meeting your dog’s needs.
Why are they acting out? (Fear, boredom, confusion?)
Are their physical and emotional needs being met? (Exercise, mental stimulation, security?)
Are you giving clear, consistent communication? (Do they understand what you expect from them?)
By addressing the root cause instead of just suppressing symptoms, you’ll create a dog that listens because they trust you, not because they’re afraid.
Myth #4: Dogs Just Need Obedience Training to Behave
What people believe: Teaching your dog to "sit," "stay," and "heel" is enough to fix any behavior problems.
The truth: Obedience or behavioral training may teach skills, but it doesn’t address emotions, relationships, or improving quality of life. A dog who knows how to “sit” might still struggle with reactivity, anxiety, impulse control, or be unhappy with their life.
What actually works:
Training should go beyond obedience and focus on building trust and meeting needs, which means:
Understanding why your dog behaves the way they do.
Building a strong bond, so they feel secure in your relationship.
Helping your dog learn how to make better choices instead of just memorizing commands.
Instead of forcing obedience, help your dog feel safe, engaged, and motivated to follow your lead.
Final Thoughts: What Actually Works in Dog Training
If you want lasting results with your dog, focus on building trust, clear lines of communication, and developing your skills as a leader—not just quick fixes or obedience drills.
Be a calm, confident leader your dog trusts.
Use positive reinforcement, but balance it with structure and guidance.
Address the root cause of behaviors instead of suppressing them.
Teach your dog how to think, not just how to follow commands.
Dog training isn’t just about getting your dog to behave a certain way—it’s about creating a partnership built on trust and understanding.
Ready to Transform Your Dog’s Behavior?
At Strong Bond Dog Training, we go beyond obedience and help you build a lifelong connection with your dog. If you’re ready to take the next step, check out our Pack Transformation Program or grab a copy of The Hidden Habits of Highly Successful Pack Leaders to learn how trust-based training creates real, lasting change.
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